Tuesday, November 20, 2012

The Truths About Dating and Mating Blog Tour

It is my great pleasure to take part in Jaycee DeLorenzo's blog tour for the release of her debut novel, The Truths About Dating and Mating, due out tomorrow!

Be sure to read to the bottom for your chance to enter The Truths About Dating and Mating Giveaway!

In The Truths About Dating and Mating, spunky Italian coed Ivy Rossini likes to talk and push the boundaries. She gets to do both as she co-hosts Riordan College’s radio program, The Truths about Dating and Mating, alongside her lifelong best friend, Ian Hollister.

Being the only girl who cares to see beyond Ian’s bad boy reputation has its advantages, especially when he’s scaring off the jerks who just want to nail the campus sex-guru. It’s when he’s “protecting” her from the advances she welcomes that she wants to lob him over the head and tell him to butt out. But Ivy’s feels like she’s the one who’s taken a hit when Ian almost kisses her at a party. She knows she should feel relieved when he pulls away, so why is she disappointed instead?

What’s worse, Ivy’s now getting aroused by Ian’s slightest touch and can’t stop entertaining thoughts of a romantic future. But Ian doesn’t do relationships, and she’s not interested in anything casual. In the end, Ivy decides it’s best to keep her growing feelings a secret and hope they’ll pass. However, when Ian begins hinting at wanting to take things to the next level, she’s forced to decide if a chance at something more is worth risking everything they’ve built.

With their friendship and her heart hanging in the balance, can Ivy follow the advice she and Ian give their listeners - to communicate, be honest, and trust in themselves - or will insecurity, stubbornness, and pride ruin any chance of their relationship getting off the ground?


In honor of the big day, Ivy and Ian took the time to answer some questions for me!

Thank you so much, Ivy and Ian, for agreeing to be interviewed today on Motivation for Creation. Please tell us a little about yourselves - what makes you, you - how you met - that kind of thing.

Ivy: Well, I’m Ivy, and this is Ian. We’re both 21 and attend school together at Riordan College.


Ian: We’ve been best friends since we were 7. Some bullies were picking on her, and I stopped it. We’ve pretty much been friends ever since.

How did you come up with the idea for your radio show?

Ivy: We didn’t come up with the idea. We were just doing what we always do, lately, which his arguing--

Ian: Oh, come, we don’t always argue.

Ivy: Are you kidding? We argue more than a married couple.

Ian: We debate. And it’s fun.

Ivy: If you say so. Anyhow, it was Ian’s show, and someone called to ask a question and he gave advice…

Ian: Good advice.

Ivy: Terrible advice.

Ian: I convinced you, didn’t I?

Ivy: :thinks about it and starts to smile: Fair enough. Well, it’s in the book. You can read about it.

What's the hardest question ever asked on your show?

Ivy: Anything that has to do with professing unrequited love is always hard. You don’t want to give the wrong advice, and face a backlash if things don’t work out well.

Ian: I’d say any question that has to with love.

Are either of you in a relationship right now? How does your status affect the advice you give on the show? 

Ivy: :chuckles: No, he doesn’t do relationships, and any time I start to show interest in a guy, he sabotages it by scaring them off.

Ian: I only scare off the guys who aren’t good enough for her.

Ivy: You’ve scared off all of them.

Ian: Hey, I can’t help it if you have terrible taste.

What kind of advice would you give each other?
Ivy: Stop sleeping around and give dating a try. You may discover that girls actually like you for you.

Ian: Stop selling yourself short.

Thank you so much, Jaycee, for sharing Ivy and Ian with us.  I'm chuckling and already in love with them both.  I don't normally read Young Adult, but this is one book I'll be buying!

Jaycee DeLorenzo hails from Tucson, Arizona, on the outskirts of the Saguaro National Park – which she believes to be the most beautiful spread of desert in the world.  By day, Jaycee is an English language teacher to elementary students. By night, she’s a wife, mother, writer, cover artist, website designer, and blogger.  In her spare time, she enjoys reading, cooking, singing (very poorly), catching up on her favorite T.V. shows, and researching.

The Truths about Dating and Mating is Jaycee's debut novel, and the first in a series centering around students of the fictitious Riordan College.

Find Jaycee on the web:
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Friday, November 16, 2012

Funny Friday Photos

Another week has passed, thank goodness.  I really do feel like I'm wishing away my life, one week at a time.  

Now that I'm starting to see the plot of the follow up book to Finding Meara in my head, I'm focusing back on writing again.  Since I don't have enough time during the week to get any real work done, I'm wishing all week for the weekends and the time available to write.

Living in the present moment is important though.  If we are always looking into the next moment, we miss so much.  My goal this week coming up is to try to enjoy every present minute more.

None of us really picked a clear winner of last week's photos, but scary koala is the one mentioned most often, so I'm declaring him the winner.

I hope you enjoy this week's photos!


Save the Turtles!


I don't know how funny the caption is.  I just liked the photo.



The cat's expression mirrors what I was thinking.  Kind of a "Huh?"




Looks more like soul stealing, to me. Reminds me of the Podlings in TheDark Crystal where they get their life-force sucked out of them



Does this walrus remind anyone else of Jamie in The Myth Busters?


Yep, I'd say so.


I hope your Friday is a happy one, and your weekend full of accomplishment and fun!

Did you find a favorite this week?

Tuesday, November 13, 2012

Help One Another - Writer Style

For the longest time I've felt like I just don't do my share of helping others.

The ways I observe other writers support each other often seems like it would be more beneficial to me than to the person on whom I would focus my helping attempts. (ie. having interviews, guest-bloggers, etc...)  Additionally, I've got some social awkwardness that carries over into World-Wide Web Land.  I wanted to help other writers, but didn't really know how a shy writer with short social media reach could actually provide valuable support.
Photo Couresy of FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Until yesterday.

Over at The Writer's Guide to E-Publishing, author Gordon Kessler posted on maximizing an Amazon book page.  Besides getting some great marketing ideas, some of the suggestions in the post included easy yet effectual ways authors can help each other with the dreaded marketing issue.

The three ways authors can support each other on Amazon are:

1.  Did you know Amazon book pages have "like" buttons?  I didn't.  But how easy is it to simply click a button as a vote for your favorite new author (whether traditionally or indie published). As Mr. Kessler pointed out, the more "thumbs up" clicks a book has, the more perceived credibility it may have with readers, which can only help anyone achieve success.  Also, the "like" button may figure into the Amazon algorithm to determine ranking and best-seller status.

2.  Reviews, reviews, reviews. But wait, there's more.  We all know positive reviews are helpful. What I didn't know is that on Amazon the most "helpful" reviews are moved to the top of the review list. So, even if we don't have time to leave our own review, we can help our fellow authors by finding the positive reviews and clicking "yes" on the question "Was this review helpful for you?"  If the positive reviews are found to be the most helpful, then those are the ones potential readers are going to see first.

3.  Download some freebies in the same genre as your author friend's book.  The potential effect of buying your friend's book, and then downloading some freebies in the same genre is that it may (no guarantees, of course) put your author friend's book on the "Customers who bought this book also bought..." list on those other books.  This thereby increases visibility for your author friend's book.

What are some ways you support other authors?







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