tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post6201439995426726930..comments2024-01-21T15:03:35.162-07:00Comments on Lara Schiffbauer's Motivation for Creation: For the Writers: Are We Good Enough?Lara Schiffbauerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-72922339242949915562015-10-30T15:50:39.329-06:002015-10-30T15:50:39.329-06:00Hi! So nice to see you! I think short term goals c...Hi! So nice to see you! I think short term goals can help keep going. In fact, I think there's been social experiments done which indicates that is a scientifically proven fact. Revising in a vacuum is hard, too. Writing book two with no input was hard, but now I am having to make decisions, and I really have no idea on if I'm being too lax, overly critical, or even know what I'm doing. So, I hear your pain, and commiserate. Cheers for continuing to bother. :)Lara Schiffbauerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-88054475247955159282015-10-28T21:35:11.846-06:002015-10-28T21:35:11.846-06:00I think that for me my success as a writer has bee...I think that for me my success as a writer has been defined as my own goals. Right now I have shed the burden of novel-ing and focus on short stories, one I'm finally ready to submit. And for me, getting those stories published will be my success, right now. Then soon I'll be ready to maybe consider writing a longer story, but until than that's my bar. The hard part though in writing at least for me is revising, going back to the drawing board after critiques and silencing that little voice that wants to know why you are bothering? Some days success only means I am bothering.Nicole Pyleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06920135146911951755noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-89477081470346657182015-10-23T14:19:30.171-06:002015-10-23T14:19:30.171-06:00Yep. I get tired of wondering, too. I think maybe ...Yep. I get tired of wondering, too. I think maybe that's why I'm feeling more balanced after this post. I've made up my mind that I'll keep on, however that might look. It may be Wattpad for me, but I'll write.<br /><br />And be happy with where I'm at in the journey, instead of feeling jealous and frustrated and sad because I'm not getting mounds of social approval. (And I'll still be making the same amount of money, ha!) But, I just want to quit thinking and worrying over how to get the golden ring. And whining. I think I whine, too, mostly to my husband, but you know... I hate it when I whine. What a waste of breath that is!<br />Lara Schiffbauerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-88619496117689565012015-10-23T14:11:12.201-06:002015-10-23T14:11:12.201-06:00That's good to know, David! Thank you for the ...That's good to know, David! Thank you for the desire to "like" the post! I think if you click on the G+ button at the bottom of the post before the comments section (it's a red button), it works the same. It gives posts more status with the Google bots.Lara Schiffbauerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-33448935630181966902015-10-23T06:24:58.480-06:002015-10-23T06:24:58.480-06:00I won't give up writing, but it's the othe...I won't give up writing, but it's the other things I'm tired of and wondering if I should give up. Should I give up querying agents? Should I give up querying publishers? Should I give up the idea of being traditionally published by a big publisher and just look for small? Should I give up the idea of self-publishing and just go someplace like Wattpad and offer it for free. Each giving up comes with some disappointment, but at least I'm not to the point of totally giving up yet.Suzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16502606950280751205noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-20834069242376897802015-10-22T21:22:59.345-06:002015-10-22T21:22:59.345-06:00Friends and kindred spirits have to stick together...Friends and kindred spirits have to stick together. Sorry for the delay in the reply but it has been hectic at the blood center. sigh.Roland D. Yeomanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00338410857990551352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-9751685930007282902015-10-22T15:47:02.589-06:002015-10-22T15:47:02.589-06:00Wish Blolgspot had a "Like" button like ...Wish Blolgspot had a "Like" button like Wordpress does. I'd click it frequently on your posts.David N. Walkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01162214794443878207noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-40130437061409470282015-10-22T10:46:16.111-06:002015-10-22T10:46:16.111-06:00Yes, I agree with you about the different "do...Yes, I agree with you about the different "doors" for different people, different opinions for different people. After more than 20 years of writing, I'm comfortable with my choices of how I want to write and when I want to write. In time, all writers find their happy place, whether it's writing for the masses for writing for the so-so readers. It's all good. Cindy Keen Reyndershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01538914807361602296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-71328031271154032252015-10-22T09:56:50.848-06:002015-10-22T09:56:50.848-06:00HI, Cindy! I totally agree, which is why I mention...HI, Cindy! I totally agree, which is why I mentioned in the post that I don't want to define success for anyone, and only used "social approval" to explain where my thoughts are. The way I see it, you are still writing, still telling stories, just not fiction ones. And you're doing fiction type work based on your desires, instead of seeking the social approval. You're still a writer, and if your fiction grabs you enough that you want to wade back in, you'll do that. So, the saying "if you keep knocking and the door doesn't open, maybe it's not your door" doesn't mean that writing isn't your door. Maybe that particular door isn't your door, but there are lots of doors in life, in writing. <br /><br />For some reason, and I really can't explain it at all, that tweet from Luka Sulic grounded me. It was like when my mind is swirling and I do yoga, and the act of focusing on how my body feels and my breathing refocuses my mind to self-awareness, instead of being blown about by anxieties. Something about the tweet shifted my perspective to that same spot of calm composure that I can handle this. I do believe in myself. That doesn't mean that success is going to pop out of the woodwork. I'm too much of a realist to believe that. But I can handle being a writer with a small audience, with a "meh" response. <br /><br />And the things you are accomplishing are so important. Putting those things ahead of writing doesn't mean you're any less of a writer. It means you're a balanced, loving mom and grandma. And friend! :DLara Schiffbauerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-54643584674731534422015-10-22T09:12:24.076-06:002015-10-22T09:12:24.076-06:00Whether or not you've succeeded as a writer is...Whether or not you've succeeded as a writer is as specific to each individual as is his or her fingerprint. Does that make sense? I get it, but then, that's just me. I believe the decision to continue writing is also an individual choice, so it's difficult for anyone to answer. I recently heard another saying: "If you keep knocking on the door and it doesn't open, maybe it's not your door." To me, a writer who found a solid, profitable career in the work world with my ability to write, but no real following as a novelist, that saying meant I could make a choice to focus on the work writing that is successful and finally relax about the book writing that got a "Meh," response from readers and a lot of spiteful reviews. I could blame my lack of novelist prowess on my lousy agents and lousy publishers and clueless readers, and when I'm enjoying a pity party, I do. A lot. Yet, I try to rise above the negativity and tell myself I'm meant to accomplish different things. For now. Maybe in three or five years, if I'm alive God willing, I'll give novel writing another shot. Until then, I'll continue to learn the craft and exercise my writing muscles in other ways than fleshing out books. I'll read everything I can get my hands on. I'll dream up plots and jot them down if I feel so moved. And I'll enjoy life, take a breath of fresh air and allow the muse to tease me. Cindy Keen Reyndershttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01538914807361602296noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-20421100604864384292015-10-22T09:02:01.921-06:002015-10-22T09:02:01.921-06:00You're right, Roland. I don't know if it&#...You're right, Roland. I don't know if it's because I'm stubborn or an optimist, but that not knowing the future, and the fear that things might have changed the very next day after I quit, makes me trudge along through self-doubt and disillusionment. And the occasional review that asks for the next book. That helps quite a bit...<br /><br />I believe in you, too, Roland. There is no better person who deserves success than you. :) Thanks for your confidence in me!Lara Schiffbauerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13546286607078965432noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5871196542873255795.post-47149669306261571812015-10-21T21:10:37.470-06:002015-10-21T21:10:37.470-06:00If you give up, you will never know if you would h...If you give up, you will never know if you would have succeeded had you kept on just another month or year more. Mark Twain wrote that you write for yourself until someone pays you to write -- but that you write: just as often as you can. Emily Dickinson gave up trying to be published because of the harsh things said of her poems by critics ... and we would never have known her work if her sister had not believed in her work's worth after her death With each thing we write, we grow better, stronger. I believe in you, Lara. You can do this. :-)Roland D. Yeomanshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00338410857990551352noreply@blogger.com