Tuesday, July 02, 2013

Theme Park: Woman Power

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The first theme I'm going to tackle on the very first Theme Park is that of strong women. It shouldn't have surprised me that the female characters in Finding Meara are plucky and don't let others define who they are. Most of the women in my family are very outspoken and stand tall in the face of adversity. One of my favorite role-models of woman power in my family is my maternal great-grandmother, Irene.
As a child, my mother, sister and I would visit my great-grandma Irene on her ranch near Mule Creek Junction, Wyoming. By that time, Grandma Irene was in her 80's. She was a plump old lady with salt-and-pepper grey hair, some soft-looking jowels, and a twinkle in her eyes.
Scrubby plains surrounded the four room house in which she lived in by herself, her son living in a separate house next door. My sister and I enjoyed winding our way through the weathered red barns which once sheltered cattle and sheep, or hiking to the buttes which towered a significant distance away.
Grandma had been born in the late nineteenth century, a time which expected women to get married and have children – end of story. Grandma didn't pay attention to the times, though, and decided to write her own story. Following secondary school, she attended college to become a teacher. She graduated and taught in Dewey, South Dakorta, where she met the cowboy destined to become my great-grandfather, but she wasn't ready to settle down yet.
From 1919 to 1920, she and her sister each homesteaded plots near the Cheyenne River in Wyoming, while living together in a small cabin. Water was scarce. Grandma and Aunt Helen hauled water to the house to wash laundry on washboards. They cooked on wooden stoves. Horses were their only transportation. It was hard living, but Grandma proved the land (followed the rules to make it hers) all while teaching at a nearby school. She said you had to be determined to be successful.

My great-grandfather Mose homesteaded right next to Grandma Irene. Finally, in June of 1920, he convinced Grandma that they should marry, and they combined their homesteads.

Even after marriage, Grandma continued to teach for a while. She worked the ranch with Grandpa. She had three children, and kept the house. She canned the family’s food, tended the garden, sewed most of the clothing they wore, weeded the corn, and sent milk and eggs to town with the mailman to get credit for groceries. She and my grandfather were married for over fifty years before Grandpa died. They treated each other with respect, and provided love, guidance and a safe place for my mother and her siblings as they grew up.

I always enjoy telling people my Grandmother was a homesteader. While I'm sure she wasn't the only woman to do so, they always act surprised at the revelation. The best thing about Grandma Irene, though, is that she taught those around her about hard work, determination, love and family. She was the embodiment of a strong woman at a time when women weren't expected to be strong.

11 comments:

  1. Were not expected to be strong, or their strength was taken for granted?

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    1. That's a good question, Joe. I think many women of the West were strong women, but that it just wasn't really recognized or encouraged, so maybe it was a matter of their strength being taken for granted. And women were definitely not supposed to get out of line, and strong women didn't (don't) usually do a good job of staying within boundaries.

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  2. Lo-oved this wonderful tribute to your amazing grandmother. Lara, I can't believe all the things she accomplished on a regular basis--or the hardship she overcame. And the fact that she homesteaded land on her own--at a time when most women were taught to be dependent upon a man for their survival--just wows me. No wonder you are such a go-getter. I would have loved to meet your grandmother, I already admire her spirit.

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    1. Thanks, Denise! I didn't get to know Grandma Irene very well, but always loved getting to visit her. Her stories and lifestyle always amazed me. :)

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  3. I love stories like this! Maybe another manuscript idea? Just a thought. Love the Theme Park theme, Lara!

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    1. Thank you, Vaughn! Could be another story in there. Maybe a short story. That could be fun. :)

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  4. I love this story, Lara. I know I would have liked your Grandmother. Have you read the book Half Broke Horses by Jeannette Walls?

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  5. What a wonderful legacy she left for you and your family! My mom was like that. She taught us all a lot about life.

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  6. That is so cool what she did so long ago. Life was so much more physical back then and to support herself like that all on her own makes her a great role model.

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  7. Interesting, Lara. I hope you see Fancy as a strong woman also. That's my intent. Maybe that's why you've been willing to wade through all these volumes.

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  8. I absolutely love this story! I am so impressed with your Grandma. I can kind of relate to how hard it must have been for her, my husband and I did a bit of homesteading for a couple of years at our last location- milk cows, pigs, chickens, garden, and then he deployed. Gah! That was the hardest I've ever worked in my life, and I had electricity and running water! Thanks for sharing this story and your Grandmother would be so proud of the strong woman you are!

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